Behind the Wheel
I cannot imagine my life without driving. It means independence and freedom and I am glad that I can continue to do so even with Parkinson’s. Yes, there are times when I choose not to get behind the wheel because I am uncomfortable with driving in torrential rain or icy roads. And there are days when my tremors are just too bothersome to venture out, much less drive. It is my decision when and when not to drive and I take it seriously. I do not want to put myself or others at risk so I am very aware of my driving responsibilities. In fact, I am a better driver now than I was before I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s. Let me explain.
When I am behind the wheel, I focus on driving and only driving. I do not turn on the radio, I do not text and I do not talk on the phone. I do not put on my makeup or style my hair or put on my earrings or touch up my nails. I do not read, write or dictate. I drive. When I have passengers, I limit the number so it is not distracting and I am very open about asking them to drive if I am feeling fatigued.
Two years ago, I finally got a new car. When shopping for it, I had a vey specific list of safety must-haves for the new vehicle. Number one on the list was a backup camera. It is more than a luxury, it is a necessity. I do not depend solely on the camera, I continue to check all ways when backing up and then confirm that the coast is clear with backup technology. Next on the list was the audio signals that alert you if there are cars passing. Again, I still trust my driving skills that have served me well for nearly fifty years, but the alarms add some assurance which is a good thing. Also, on my list was a vehicle with good visibility from the front, sides and back. Check, check. check. I found everything on my safety list in my Mazda 3 and it looks good too. It may not be the RX7 I once tooled around in until I needed a car seat, but it serves me well at this stage of my life.
Most importanty, each time I get behind the wheel, I remind myself to stay alert and be aware of my surroundings and the other drivers. I want to keep my reflexes sharp and my reactions quick. Ironically, I believe that having Pakinson’s has improved my driving. And one thing is for sure it has centainly made me appreciative.
Safe travels.
